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DrivingMeNutes Says:
August 24th, 2011 at 12:22 pm
I like this talmudic debate over my commentary.
To clarify, I think all successful relationships are about good diplomacy, not just dating and not just “early on.” If people consider “getting what you want” a bad thing, then my final advice to them is not to take any of my advice and stop reading my commentary. (I take that back, please keep reading)
Dating is not a zero-sum game – not every advantage taken is at the expense of, or detriment to, another person. Well-intended manipulation and deceit can and does benefit both parties. And you know it, even if you budding moralists won’t admit it.
Being a “bad dater” to me means lacking self-awareness or lacking ability to realistically assess a situation and, most importantly, your role in it.
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Being An Emotional Man Does Not Equal “Talking About Your Feelings”
The Question You Need To Ask Yourself While You’re Dating
The First Rule of Proposing: Don’t Ask A Question You Don’t Know The Answer To
Stone Soup: The Art Of Building Attraction Through Scaffolding
DrivingMeNutes Says:
August 24th, 2011 at 12:22 pm
I like this talmudic debate over my commentary.
To clarify, I think all successful relationships are about good diplomacy, not just dating and not just “early on.” If people consider “getting what you want” a bad thing, then my final advice to them is not to take any of my advice and stop reading my commentary. (I take that back, please keep reading)
Dating is not a zero-sum game – not every advantage taken is at the expense of, or detriment to, another person. Well-intended manipulation and deceit can and does benefit both parties. And you know it, even if you budding moralists won’t admit it.
Being a “bad dater” to me means lacking self-awareness or lacking ability to realistically assess a situation and, most importantly, your role in it.
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