Dealing With Dating Setbacks
Why Aren’t You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi
Five Marriage Sins You Should Stop Committing
5 People Whose Marriage Advice You Need to Stop Listening To
5 Reasons to Stop Bashing Your Ex on Facebook
Five Phrases You’re Using that Are Hurting Your Marriage
Is Facebook Bad for Your Marriage?
Ladies Are You Too Busy? Make Time!!
The Only Reason Why You’re Not Married Yet
8 Steps to Keeping Your Marriage When You Lose Your Job
Stop Trying to Decide What Should Be Important to Your Spouse
We have been given free will and the choice is yours. Do you want to choose faith or give up? If you choose faith, you can let go of the doubt and focus on what you want. Instead of obsessing that love isn’t going to happen and being afraid to get hurt, you can let go and relax and create love in your heart from a more open and expansive place. In essence, the only struggle you wrestle with is the doubt and fear within your mind. Faith and fear cannot co-exist in the same moment. Of course, it is okay and normal to have a little doubt. You are not super-human. So my rule of thumb is that just hold faith 51% of the time to bring the love you want into your life. I almost gave up many times and had good reasons to with all the heartache I experienced. I had enough. But I listened to that soft voice inside that said love is possible. He is out there looking for you too. Letting go doesn’t mean stop taking action. It is the action aligned with faith that brings you the love you want. That is how love found me and will find you too.
Valentine’s Smalentines!
February 3, 2014 | By Debi Berndt | 1 Comment
I have to admit that I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. After decades of being single, that date caused so much heartache for me. Even now that I am in a relationship, I don’t like to celebrate because it never brought any joy for me. The holiday only put additional stress on me to be in a relationship (as if I needed any more pressure as I edged closer to 40).
I used to dread the months between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day, filled with couple events only to serve as a reminder of my never-ending single status. I remember a huge sense of relief on February 15th and vowed that the next year wouldn’t be like this one. Year after year, I would let this date on the calendar have power of over me. I wasn’t very Zen in those days!
Why Aren’t You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi
Five Marriage Sins You Should Stop Committing
5 People Whose Marriage Advice You Need to Stop Listening To
5 Reasons to Stop Bashing Your Ex on Facebook
Five Phrases You’re Using that Are Hurting Your Marriage
Is Facebook Bad for Your Marriage?
Ladies Are You Too Busy? Make Time!!
The Only Reason Why You’re Not Married Yet
8 Steps to Keeping Your Marriage When You Lose Your Job
Stop Trying to Decide What Should Be Important to Your Spouse
We have been given free will and the choice is yours. Do you want to choose faith or give up? If you choose faith, you can let go of the doubt and focus on what you want. Instead of obsessing that love isn’t going to happen and being afraid to get hurt, you can let go and relax and create love in your heart from a more open and expansive place. In essence, the only struggle you wrestle with is the doubt and fear within your mind. Faith and fear cannot co-exist in the same moment. Of course, it is okay and normal to have a little doubt. You are not super-human. So my rule of thumb is that just hold faith 51% of the time to bring the love you want into your life. I almost gave up many times and had good reasons to with all the heartache I experienced. I had enough. But I listened to that soft voice inside that said love is possible. He is out there looking for you too. Letting go doesn’t mean stop taking action. It is the action aligned with faith that brings you the love you want. That is how love found me and will find you too.
Valentine’s Smalentines!
February 3, 2014 | By Debi Berndt | 1 Comment
I have to admit that I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. After decades of being single, that date caused so much heartache for me. Even now that I am in a relationship, I don’t like to celebrate because it never brought any joy for me. The holiday only put additional stress on me to be in a relationship (as if I needed any more pressure as I edged closer to 40).
I used to dread the months between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day, filled with couple events only to serve as a reminder of my never-ending single status. I remember a huge sense of relief on February 15th and vowed that the next year wouldn’t be like this one. Year after year, I would let this date on the calendar have power of over me. I wasn’t very Zen in those days!